Women are complicated as most of the men think. The enigmas those are complex and challenging. Sometimes they throw a yes, but does that yes always mean yes? It can be a No too! They are quite tricky. It is not that women are impossible to understand; we can understand their emotions and them only if we ever wanted to. The society we live in has confined them and our mind to such stereotypes and traditions that our minds cannot think far than that.
It is easy to win a woman’s heart, even if she has built high walls around. All you need to do is understand how her heart feels and how can you help her. Some would think that it is all complicated and would take a lot of efforts; these efforts will only help you melt her heart. Take note guys, how these ten tips will help you know more about women.
SOME EFFORTS AND SHE IS YOURS!
Women are the givers, as we all know. It has been proved that they always give their 100% in a relationship, whether it is family, work, romance or marriage. They will give their time and efforts to keep the bond strong. Also, they are ready to sacrifice anything for the sake of their relationships which quality men lack. Not all men sacrifice to let their women live their dream. You should at least appreciate her for the sacrifices and the efforts she makes for you. Make her feel special and don’t let her efforts go in vain. Make it up for it, with a kiss or a night to be remembered.
It doesn’t matter whether you are married or still dating, you need to keep your woman happy and make feel special every moment. They will be happy if you just offer them a rose or a bouquet or you just take them out for candlelight dinner; they will be happy. If you are good at writing, try penning down your thought for her, why not a poem!
She is your queen, treat her like one. Hanging out is way different from the romantic dates. She might like it when you randomly kiss her forehead or keep telling her how special she is to you. Intimacy is important, but you should make a move only when she is comfortable with you. Hang out with friends, make her meet your friends and even hang out with her friends, but taking her out on a date will be more special for her.
NICEST OF ALL?
Bad boys do attract women, but she searches for the one who is nice to her and can take care of her. With time preferences do change. As you mature your interest grows in the one who can keep your heart safe and loves you forever. Men who inhibit qualities like sweetness and virtuousness are whom women prefer to be with regardless of they are. A guy who has a good heart attracts more. (keep your heart clean guys!) you treat her right; she will surely love you right.
Girls do look for them who can keep a long-term relationship; it is not that these men are all husband material! Be a gentleman who handles her and her heart carefully! After many failed relationships you find the right one, so the theory is same, after many bad guys she will surely search for the nice one.
DON’T PRETEND TO BE MR NICE.
There is a line between being nice and saying that you are nice. Everybody out there among you all can pretend to be nice, but not everybody is. Girls care expert in identifying the nature of the guys, and they can detect the difference. She might have dated many who pretended to be prince charming but showed their real colours in a few months. She will immediately know who her prince charming is and who is worthy of her love.
You should keep doing good deeds for her and don’t do anything because you want something in return. You should treat with all your love and care because you genuinely love her. She might not appreciate every effort you make and sometimes you might lose her heart, don’t blame her for it. Don’t be bitter about her. Just because you are that Mr Nice, it doesn’t mean every girl falls for you at your every move.
SMILE OR ANGER?
She doesn’t always owe you a smile! There will be times she might annoy you or get angry at you for nothing! It is universal behaviour women follow. They too work for long; have to meet the deadline and meet annoying bosses. So, it is usual that she might throw tantrums at you. After a long stressful day, she cannot act sweetly to you. Quite tricky, right?
Society treats women as a perfect model, who after a stressful day has to satisfy their partners. They completely forget that they too are human beings, who work all day. Women are not the ones who keep satisfying your needs and cannot be treated as objects. They should be free from the imposed stereotypes and societal pressure. Understand her, if she isn’t in a mood to talk.
Studies show that” in general, older men are more likely to catcall than the younger generation. If you’re one of the latter, a big thumbs up to you!”
Family oriented guys do attract girls. A guy who loves cars and respects his mother will surely love his girl too. As it is mostly said that, “if a man treats his mother right, he’s a keeper. Women do believe that, and when you talk about your mom like she’s the most fantastic woman in the world, it increases your points up that attractive scale. It reflects the way you appreciate the people in your life, especially the one who gave you life and sacrificed so much to raise you.” It is also revealed that you’ll treat your wife right in future. The point that earns you her heart is the way you respect women in your life.
HONESTY IS THE BEST POLICY.
It isn’t cliché, being honest with a woman earns you her heart, love and respect. Being a playboy looked cool at your teenager, but it is better to be committed to the one you over and not wander here and there. A guy should have eyes for his women.
Commitments can sound scary because not everybody is ready for a relationship; some need partners but wait for the commitment. Breaking her trust and her heart will lead you to lose her in your life. If you someone, commit to them and respect your relationship. “Setting expectations and giving assumptions without mutual consent is a result of a lack of communication so be sure always to be vocal about your feelings”, studies reveal.
DON’T GHOST AROUND
Ghosting is when somebody suddenly disappears without any explanations. In some situations, this happens, where a guy breaks up and leaves without giving any reasons. It is understandable if you have been suffering a lot in a relationship. It leaves a painful mess, and for a woman, it is hard to handle.” And most of the time, it’s the female that is left behind”, as observed in a research study. As it turns out, “men most likely tend to date a girl and go without warning, only to repeat the cycle after a few months. I know horrible, right? Again, nothing beats the honesty policy in a relationship.”
RECOVERING FROM THE BREAK-UP
Studies show that “women because they tend to feel emotions in real time, can move on from relationship faster than men, who are more likely to feel the aftershocks of a breakup on a much later time.” So, boys you know you are bad at recovering, decide before you take a step.
SLOW AND STEADY WINS THE RACE.
Women want things to be slow, and they also expect their partners to take it slow. Don’t ever make her feel like you are eager for something and don’t rush things. Give your relationship time; spend time understanding each other and your ship sails only when you not rush things. To sail your ship long way, other than fighting with your partner, fight the hardships you face.
Skip any step and your ship sinks. Protect your ship from sinking. It will be special for both of you when the D-day comes, and you have your First kiss. Make sure you take things slow and treat t]ypur girl the right way. Don’t force things on her, and continuously put your efforts to make her feel special.